Our family was given an AMAZING gift from so many of our friends! One Fab Friend in particular offered to organize a few dinners for us for after Piper was born. I loved the idea, but didn’t really think we would need THAT many dinners! Maybe a couple weeks worth at the most.
HAAAAAA, HAAAAAA, HAAAAAAAAAAA! I was sooo clueless! As my sweet Fab Friend’s email to everyone said,
“Baby Coady #3 is only a month away and as many of you know 2 babies = HARD….3 babies = CRAZY MIND NUMBING HARD!”
Oh she had no idea how right on she was!
Truthfully, Piper is an AWESOME baby, very sweet and content…now into week 4, I still feel like we are in the “honeymoon phase” of a new baby. However, we have had 2 other babes that have been sick with 2 different colds, and have only wanted “mama” since my return from the hospital (they used to go to ANYONE), the sleep deprivation is definitely setting in (especially when you need to get up for 3 kids at night and not just the newborn), and trying to find the balance, and energy to make work, family, blog all sync together AND take a shower is proving death defying.
The thought of leaving the house for a normal grocery run, not so much.
So back to the amazing gift. With Baby #1, friends called on a whim and told us they were bringing a dinner that evening. So nice! But also a little scattered for my post prego brain.
With Baby #2, friends called and sent emails that they were going to be dropping off a dinner (insert any day of the week here). Which again was so nice, but I ended up trying to manage a dinner calendar while also trying to recover and master survive my way through our newborn and our 11 mos old! NOT an easy feat for a time that was most certainly the most challenging I’ve ever had.
So when my Fab Friend offered to organize dinners for me for #3, I was SO THANKFUL! What I never expected was 6 weeks of dinners, 7 days a week! ARE YOU KIDDING!?!?
Needless to say around 9AM each day I think, “I’ve got my snap together. I can rule the world! I am mommy, hear me roar!!”
But by noon I’m saying, “Dear Lord, thank you for giving me incredible friends that bring me dinner each day!! Also if you could please give me the energy to eat it, and not fall asleep in my plate, that would be great!!”
This is what my Fab Friend did (and yes she has a child too)…
- She emailed everyone asking who would like to help with dinners.
- Anyone that didn’t want to cook, was super busy, or lived further away, she offered to arrange for a dinner to be delivered by a local spot and they could send her a check.
- She sent out a master dinner calendar so everyone would know where their day was.
- She sends an email at the beginning of each week reminding everyone who’s up that week.
- And to top it all off, she and another Fab Friend gave me darling thanks notes (in the photo above), PRE-ADDRESSED. They are just waiting for me to write and send after each meal!! (They can also be purchased from my Favorite Sara + Abraham.
Truly, from the organization, to the meals, to the thanks cards – we could not be more grateful! I encourage you to organize this if you have a friend that may be under water….you don’t have to be ill to appreciate the kind gesture of dinners. TRUST ME, having 3 babes, 2 years old and younger will do it to you too!
I’ve also gotten to try a lot of things I would not have otherwise. And when I’m feeling awful about a busy mom friend dropping off a dinner, the comment I always hear is.
“It was no big deal! I just doubled up and am feeding my family the same thing!”
I’ve been asked a lot what we’ve been eating so far….here you go. The variety has been amazing! Seriously SUCH a treat!! THANK YOU!
Panini – Chicken Kabobs, Greek Salad, Pita Bread & Hummus. Susie Cakes treats
Gina’s Pizza – Rasta Salad, Green Pepper & Sausage Pizza, Buttered Pasta for the Kids
Homemade Spaghetti Sauce, Pasta, Garlic Bread, Sorbet
Homemade Baked Salmon, Strawberry Salad, Bread, Buttered Noodles & Jello Jigglers for the kids
Homemade Tostadas
Homemade Pesto Pasta Salad, Fruit, Choc Chip Cookies, Cookie Cutter PB&J, Pretzels, Fruit Roll Ups
Homemade Tamale Pie and Caesar Salad
Homemade Pasta, Stuffed Peppers, Brownies
Homemade Sweet Chicken and Rice, Salad, Hagan Daaz Ice Cream Bars
Homemade Chicken Divan, Fresh Fruit, Caesar Salad, Peeps
Pei Wei (and a Quiche Lorraine for breakfast the next day & Zuchinni Bread for snacking)
“BFD” – Breakfast For Dinner – Crepes, Eggs, Bacon, Sausage, Hash Browns, OJ
Homemade Chicken Chili, Chips, Avocado, Cheese
Bag of fun Groceries for Munching
Homemade Teriyaki Chicken & Rice, Salad, Lemon Bars
Trader Joe’s Pasta, Marina Sauce, Turkey Meatballs, Garlic Bread, Tea & Lemonade, Girl Scout Cookies
The Cheesecake Factory - Lettuce Wraps, Chicken Carbonara, Corn Dogs, Macadamia Nut Cheesecake
Homemade Scallop Potatoes, Ham, Spinach Salad, Rolls
La Fogata - Santa Fe Salad with Chicken, Chicken Tacos, Cheese Quesadilla
Daphnes – Chicken Kabobs, Rice, Greek Salad, Hummus, Pita Bread
Homemade Lasagana
Al’s NY Pizza & Salad

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Wow! You truly have some great friends!
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I couldn’t agree more!
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Wow! You are one lucky mama!! I am sure it is well deserved (and needed). I heard that once the kids outnumber the parents, its crazy (in a good way)!!
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You do have amazing friends!! Just so you know in the future, I just helped with meals for a friend and the coordinator found this website
http://www.foodtidings.com/
It does the “work” for you!! You email it out to the people that might be interested, everyone signs up (and can see which days are open) and then it sends you a reminder email a few days before. SOOOOOO easy!
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Definitely going to check that site out! Thx!
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My friends did this for me with my baby and we do it for friends with newborns or in need of help. Go to http://www.foodtidings.com. It sends you emails to remind you when you are suppose to make/take dinner, special instructions for delivery/likes/dislikes, and allows you to write what you are making/taking so the family does not have chicken pot pie every night :) It is free and you can send it out to as many people as you want, you just have to sign up! Hope this helps with future babies ;)!!!
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FABULOUS tip! Thanks for sharing! Too funny…you and the commenter above you sent the same tip at the same time!
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You can also go to http://www.lotsahelpinghands.com I organize this through our church to send meals to families in need – I send out an e-mail and those registered can sign up if it fits into their schedule and then they also receive reminders. It can be used for any number of things. We had a mom who had triplets and we used it for meals, for helping to feed the babies, for just holding the babies etc. It was great! As the coordinator of the site, I also get e-mails telling me that someone has signed up to bring a meal or whatever so I know it’s filled.
Hope you’re enjoying those girls — can’t believe my 3 big ones are almost all out of the house — so sad! Good thing I still have 3 more kids!!!
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GREAT, GREAT tip! I was just emailed this site in my suggestion box from a friend who helped organize meals for someone that is ill. This has been a very good help to them! Thank you for such a great tip!
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Very cool! Nice going to check out those sites especially for when my sis has a baby and I am too far to help out…
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That is incredible! Awesome friends and great idea if you have a friend with the organizational skills to pull it off! haha.
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WOW you are blessed with AMAZING friends!!! You definitely have done something right ;-)
xoxo
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I agree — this is the BEST gift you can give a new mom. A friend just organized this for another friend with her new baby and she used the website FoodTidings (www.foodtidings.com) and it organized everything for us … sent the reminders, posted what everyone was bringing (so there werent duplicates). We also did this through the make ahead meal places (e.g. Dream Dinners) and purchased pre-made frozen dinners for new moms and had those delivered so that all the mom had to do was put things in the oven. I know you are in Orange County but in San Diego I LOVE a place called Healthy Creations for this kind of make-ahead meal. The thing that’s nice about that option is that then you can make the meal on YOUR timing instead of having someone deliver it hot and then having to work around that.
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That is incredible! Awesome friends and great idea if you have a friend with the organizational skills to pull it off! haha.
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This is magnificent features on blog!
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